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Give Honest and Sincere Appreciation

"The ability to arouse enthusiasm among my people is the greatest asset I possess and the way to develop the best that is in a person is by appreciation and encouragement. There is nothing else that so kills the ambition of a person as criticism from superiors. I never criticize anyone. I believe in giving a person incentive to work. So I am anxious to praise but loath to find fault. If I like anything, I am hearty in my approbation and lavish in my praise" -  Charles Schwab 
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(Extracted from 'How to win friends & Influence people' by Dale Carnagie).

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